Are You Being Haunted?

First of all, let me say that if you feel you’re being visited by a loved one and you wish them to leave, all you have to do is ask! Talk to them out loud and simply tell them you wish for them to go. You don’t even have to give a reason! A simple statement to use is: “I appreciate you caring enough about me (and my family) to want to check in on us, but I’d rather you moved on (and not return).” It’s that easy. They will respect your request!

Some of you may be wondering, “Why in the world would I want my mom/dad/brother/uncle to leave!?”  Well for the simple reason that it can be disruptive, unintentionally of course, for your family; especially if that loved one hasn’t crossed over.  If they’re in spirit and stuck on earth, they have all the same feelings and emotions they did when they were here.  The energy of those feelings and emotions can be felt by anyone in your home and those living there can actually take those feelings on themselves.

Now, if you’ve asked the spirits to move on and they haven’t, chances are it’s not a loved one, or it’s a non-crossed over loved one with an urgent message or complaint.  That’s when the “sweet” side of being checked up on by your spirit family can turn into something more, something a bit harder to live with.

Living with disharmonious entities can be daunting. They can disrupt our lives in too many ways to count, causing depression, anger, and even paranoia.  We can often witness the work of these spirits without even realizing it.  Have you ever seen someone whose life seemed wonderful; who then changed jobs, relationships, homes, cars, etc. and within a short time things are falling apart around them?  Often this is the work of a spirit or entity who has become attached to them (not to be confused with possession).  Clearing one’s life and home of disharmonious spirits can open a gateway to happiness and peace.  Perhaps you’re living like this, or you know someone close to you who is.  I specialize in clearing homes and creating a protective balance and can teach you how to enforce it.  If you would like help with ridding your life of damaging entities, go here for more information!

Some of the signs of a haunting are:

  • Feelings of paranoia or being watched

  • Unexplained noises

  • Feelings of confusion

  • Frequent nightmares (anyone in your house)

  • Uneasy feeling when in your home (or building) or in specific areas of it

  • Feelings of sudden or overwhelming anger (generally without reason)

  • Commonly used items disappear and reappear

  • Lights turning on and off

  • Doors and cabinets opening and shutting

  • Feelings of hopelessness or helplessness

  • Seeing shadowy forms, bright quick lights, or hazy areas in your home

  • Strange animal behavior

Some Signs Specific to Children:

  • are afraid to be alone in a room

  • are afraid to sleep in darkness

  • are afraid to go to certain areas of your home

  • cry unexpectedly

  • laugh or stare at something you can’t see

  • have sudden mood changes (especially since living in your current home)

  • talk to, or play with, an imaginary friend


  • You don’t have to live in an old home to be haunted.

  • It’s not only the poor, uneducated, or “ungodly” who are haunted. (Yes, I’ve had people believe this.)

  • A friendly ghost can easily turn into something harmful and scary. (Read Never Keep a Ghost Around)

  • A person can be haunted without the home they live in being haunted too.

  • A home (or other place) can be haunted without the people who live there being personally haunted. (Though this is rather unlikely.)

  • Anything can be haunted by an earthbound spirit or entity who decides they wish to attach to it.  That means a vehicle, a piece of jewelry, a book, clothing, toys, etc.


Go here if you need help clearing your home, yourself, or any other space.

Other pages that would be beneficial for you to read:

Haunted Spaces

Disharmonious Spirits

Demonic Spirits

Force Field

Clearing Your Mind and Body


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(Originally posted August 26, 2014 @ 20:33:43)